Well, I refuse to do an apology for the length of time since my last entry – looking back over the past few entries they’ve all started with an apology for the length of time since an update! Needless to say, real life has taken over a little bit in the last couple of months.
Things are going really well here in NSW. It even stopped raining at one point
Compared to Qld, its been lovely having a longer period of light in the evening (its dark in Qld at 6pm) but I’m not sure it makes up for getting up in the pitch dark at 5.30am to take Himself to work! Hmm.. well, ok, it mostly is.
We’ve just got our house back to ourselves after the visit from Neil’s mum and her boyfriend Ray. It was the first time we’d met Ray so we were a little apprehensive about how we’d get on, especially as they were here for 5 weeks. He seems like a nice bloke.. but my God he can drink. Out of the 5 weeks, they had a week in Melbourne, a long weekend in Brisbane and a couple of days/overnight stay in Sydney.. but they still managed to get through (in the house) – 5 x 4l wine boxes, 2 x bottles of wine, 1 x bottle of Jim Beam, 1 x bottle of scotch, 1 x bottle of brandy, 2 x cases of beer. And that didn’t include anything he drank on his daily visits to the tavern at the top of the road! Oh well, at least, as I say, he seemed a nice bloke, and Margaret was happier than I’ve seen her for a long time, so he must be doing something right.
It was good to see her again, we weren’t sure that she’d ever come out and she was amazed how much the boys had grown up in 2 years. They also seemed to enjoy their visits around the country. They were pleasantly surprised at how good the public transport was here – they had intended to hire a car but didn’t bother in the end as they could get everywhere they wanted to on the bus/train/ferry. Probably just as well considering how much Ray drank!
It was lovely on an evening to spend time playing Uno as a family – even though Margaret is the most evil card player in the world (she was usually sat next to Himself, and she was always slamming him with a +4 card) and we had to explain the rules to Ray every night – sometimes several times a night. But it was still fun. We also managed to persuade Matt to have his hair cut, it only cost me my new monitor as a bribe. He looks actually quite handsome now, we may find some sucker female to take him off our hands, you never know.
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The Long Haired Yeti from Winmalee
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Two strangers claiming to be my eldest children!
So, what else have we been upto? Two things really – trying to sell the Qld house, and trying to sort out everything for the Permanent Residency visa. The latter has involved 4 billion pieces of paperwork/forms, police checks for 4 of us (x2), medicals and chest x-rays for 5 of us, proof of dependency for Ben (as he’s over 18), character forms for 3 of us which wanted every single detail of our life since we’d left school!, wahhh.. if I never fill in another form then I shall be happy. Anyway, I think I mentioned in the last entry that we’d got our police checks back, and I managed to get all the forms filled in, with sufficient proof (fingers crossed) of everything that we need so it was only the medicals/x-rays left to do.
You may remember when the boys did the medicals for our Temp visa that we had a right performance getting clear urine samples for 2 of them. I was determined not to have this happen again and we all drank gallons and gallons of water in the days leading upto the meds. We’d arranged to have them done in Parramatta, which, according to google, was about a 50minute car journey from here. Our appointment was at 10am on a Saturday morning, so, to give ourselves plenty of time, we left here at just before 8.30am. I’d never driven to Parramatta, I didn’t know how easy it would be to find the place and I had no idea where car parks would be! We arrived, parked and walked to the Medical centre just after 9am! lol! So we decided we would be better off going in and waiting inside rather than hovering around outside and they didn’t have any problem with us turning up early. By the time I’d got to the front of the queue to register our paperwork it was about 9.25 – and we were taken through to start the process just after 9.35. We had to have our photos taken for the forms, then it was weight/height/eye test, then into a room to do our wee tests. Despite us all having had a bottle of water while we were waiting, EldestChild still produced urine the colour of tango.. so I started to get stressed, imagining that it was going to be another performance.
After the wee test, we went and sat to have blood taken. Then in to see the doctor who would look at reflexes, blood pressure, eyes, listen to chest and heart and have a quick chat about any major problems and look at our wee results. He scanned through all our wee tests and pronounced them all fine. I was sooooo relieved! Unfortunately, when he did my blood pressure it was sky high
.. he let me sit for a while and, although it was still sky high it had come down a little so he was happy to sign me off, especially as the rest of my tests were good. He did advise me to get it checked out…. and I will… once I’ve stopped stressing about the bloody visa! Everyone else was good, so we went through to have chest x-rays done and then we were all done – it was only about 11am! Incredibly efficient, I was very very impressed.
They told us that it would take 5-10 days for the chest x-rays/blood tests to be done/signed off and that we’d get the results come to us for us to forward to immigration. Four of the tests came to us the Friday after the medicals were done… mine was the one missing. I had an incredibly stressful weekend, imagining that it was going to be the police checks all over again… but mine arrived on Monday. Hurrah! Himself took them all in to the agent on Tuesday and apparently everything will be lodged this week. As its now Friday, hopefully that means today! Unfortunately, there’s now a backlog at the immigration office and its taking 3 months for them to be looked at.. which means that Ben is probably going to have to defer his Uni start
.. but hey ho, it’ll be granted when it’ll be granted and worrying about it isn’t going to get it happen any faster.
At least we’ve had good news on the house front. For the last month of so, we’ve had a couple who were ‘very interested’ in our house. They still had their house to sell so they were a little bit loath to put an offer on ours. Eventually they decided to take the plunge.. so they’ve offered us a really good price (exactly how much the agent said we would get for it!) dependant on the sale of theirs. So they now have 60 days to get an unconditional offer on their house.. and in the meantime, if anyone comes along with a better offer on ours, or who are in a position to buy ours immediately, we’re legally able to accept the new offer, so long as we give the existing couple 72 hours chance to make their offer unconditional (ie they would have to get a bridging loan and buy ours before they’ve sold theirs) – so its all looking very promising! We still have our fingers crossed that it all happens.
As some of you may know, I’m not one for having my photo taken (unless extremely drunk at a Bash!) For the last 2 years I have managed to avoid having it taken at all.. unfortunately MIL managed to get me in a few. As a result of this, and because of the blood pressure thing, I am back taking dieting seriously. Slimming World now accept international dieters on their online plan so, as I’ve had so much success with them in the past, I’m trying again. I shall report how I get on.
Be good y’all